Since no one really reads this I'm going to "vent". So Jake and I have been ttc for a couple of months. I really wanted to start trying around March. Last month we got on the same page and we are really wanting to get pregnant asap. It worries me since it took us over a year to get Kohen that it's going to take that long again. I feel like everyone around me is getting pregnant or have new babies and I want that to be me. It makes it so much harder when you see it every day. I dont know how people can do this for years. How do you get through it every month of not getting your BFP. This month Jake and I had so much sex that I was sure we would get pregnant because we had to have bd (babydanced) close or on the day I ovulated. If I am pregnant I would be almost 4 weeks and I should be able to get a positive test soon if I am pregnant. So now I guess I just wait and see if the wonderful witch shows up or not. I'm already sick and tired of taking tests. I have gotten to the point where I feel like if I stare at the little window long enough I will see a second line. Nope no luck yet! And the other thing that just sits in the back of my mind is that if I am pregnant please please let it be a girl. I do not want another boy at all. He wears me out. I want the American Dream to be able to have one of each. I know that God has other plans for you sometimes I just keep praying that he plans to bless us with a beautiful baby girl sooner than later. Dont get me wrong if we had another boy I would love him to death and having two boys would be a lot of fun but that much work also. The fighting, the girls, sports, stitches, broken bones all of it would double. I know I am lucky enough to have the one amazing beautiful healthy little boy what more could I ask for. I just feel so empty still. Will that feeling ever go away or do you get so caught up with your family that you don't notice it anymore. I'm just not sure what to think and feel like crying every day. I really dont have a clue what is going on with me these days. I'm so darn emotional!
We have been potty training for about 4 months or so. And then it kind of clicked some days he does really well and other days he has many many accidents. It's also training myself to be very aware of where we are going and making sure that there is a restroom and all of that fun stuff. We used to let him run around with out any underwear on, one time he pooped on the floor I walked in and asked K what did you do? "Bagle did it" He said it as if it's really what happened. Blaming things on the dog already. What is he going to be like when he has a little brother or sister. He would much rather pee standing outside or in the shower. Trying to get him to go on his potty consistantly hasn't been much fun. We take two steps forward and one back. It sure has been a long process but can't wait for it to be over with! This parenting isn't all fun all the time. It's hard at times but I sure wouldn't change it for the world. And for fun a couple of pic...
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